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Managing Separation Anxiety

Managing Separation Anxiety - Barking Heads & Meowing Heads

There’s no doubt that dog lifestyles changed when Covid-19 arrived. But as the UK begins to mobilise again, our four-legged housemates suddenly look set to lose the luxury of that 24/7 human company so many of them have become accustomed to during lockdown.

 

Dog separation anxiety is a very real worry for lots of us. When a dog becomes hyper-attached to its owners, it can become very distressed when they’re not there. RSPCA research suggests that 8 out of 10 of dogs will find it hard to cope when left alone, but half of these won't show any obvious signs, so it can be very easy for owners to miss too. Tell-tale indicators of separation anxiety to look out for include destructive behaviour, unwanted toileting, or reports of howling/barking

 

Golden Labrador on sofa

A massive 48% of the dog owners we asked are worried that their dog will develop signs of separation anxiety now that lockdown has been lifted in most parts of the UK… so we turned to our great friend, dog trainer and behaviourist Adem Fehmi for some top tips that we as owners can do to help build a dogs confidence, independence, and ability to settle and relax when physically away from you.

 

  • Exercise your dog before leaving them. This is beneficial for all dogs, but particularly if your dog is suffering from separation anxiety. Effectively exercising your dog will help to drain some of your dog’s energy, energy that they might otherwise put into worrying about being left. A well-exercised dog is also more likely to settle and rest in your absence than one who is raring to go! In the same way exercise benefits humans, it has a positive effect on the mental wellbeing of our dogs too and can help to keep them calm.

 

2) Give your dog something to do. Just like humans, dogs will get bored when left alone with nothing to do. Boredom can exacerbate any anxiety they might be prone to feeling when physically away from you. By offering your dog something to do in your absence you can provide mental stimulation and an outlet for your dog, helping to keep boredom and anxiety at bay. A food dispensing toy is perfect for this activity and Barking Heads have a wide range of yummy treats and nutritional food items that you can fill them with. Start by making the food easy to remove and, as your dog’s interest builds and they become more expert at reaching the food, you can up the challenge! You can even freeze some of the Barking Heads wet food in some types of rubber food dispensing toys to ensure they last a little longer!

 

3) Create a calm environment for your dog to relax in. Playing classical or soft music can help your dog to relax. Classic FM is always a winner in my house! Music can also help to drown out any external noises that might otherwise cause your dog to worry. A nice comfortable and inviting bed can also help your dog to relax in your absence.

 

4) Set and practice ‘the scene’ when you are in. Practice asking your dog to be physically away from you when you are at home together. We want our dogs to feel confident and build their independence, so that when they are away from us, they can feel comfortable, relaxed and content in our absence. One easy way to set and practice the scene is to use a light barrier such as a baby gate, so your dog can still see you but is physically distanced from you. Once they relax in this context you can introduce greater distance and more time spent away from you. Practice little and often to teach your dog there is nothing to worry about if you are not by their side 100% of the time. Don’t be afraid to go back a step if needs be and don’t forget to complete steps 1, 2 & 3 before each practice session!

 

5) Be calm on your return to your dog. We want our dogs to learn that us coming and going throughout the day is normal and not a big thing or something to be feared. By not making a big deal out of leaving them or returning to them we can help them to understand this.

Golden Labrador watching owner

 

Do you have a nervous dog during firework season? Read our blog on Vet Advice for Firework Season by Vet Dr Scott Miller and Barking Heads!


*The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your veterinarian or other qualified pet health provider with any questions you may have regarding your pet’s health*

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Fibre in dog food: what it does and how much your dog really needs

Fibre is the quiet workhorse of your dog's bowl. Learn what fibre actually is, how much your dog needs, and, how to tell whether they're already getting it right.  

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What to do if your dog is constipated: a calm, vet-backed guide

Watching your dog hunch, strain, and produce little or nothing is genuinely stressful, and it's one of those moments where a clear head helps more than a panic. So here's the calm version. Mild constipation can often be eased at home with a bit more moisture, gentle movement, and the right diet. But if your dog is straining with little or nothing to show for it for more than a day, seems to be in pain, or has other signs like vomiting or a hard, swollen tummy, skip the home remedies and call your vet. Two things are worth sorting first, and they're simpler than they sound: is this actually constipation, and is it urgent or something you can safely support at home? Let's take them in order. Is it actually constipation, and not something else? Before you treat anything, it's worth checking that constipation is really what's going on, because a few things look very similar. Constipation means your dog is trying to poo but little or nothing comes out, often with hard, dry, pebble-like stools. If they can't pass anything at all, vets call that obstipation (simply a more stubborn, backed-up version of the same thing). You might also spot straining for longer than usual, trying several times over, whining while they go, or a little mucus. Two things are easily mistaken for it: Straining to wee, not poo. These can look almost identical, especially in female dogs. As a rough guide, dogs tend to hold their tail up when trying to poo and down when weeing (PDSA, 2023). Diarrhoea. Confusingly, a dog with a runny tummy can also strain and squat repeatedly, so you may think they're blocked up when the opposite is true (Vets Now, 2024). If you'd like a fuller picture of what healthy and less-healthy poo looks like, our expert guide to your dog's poo breaks it all down. Why do dogs get constipated? Constipation usually comes down to something slowing the gut or making poo harder to pass. Common causes include: Not drinking enough water, which lets stools dry out and harden. Too little fibre, or occasionally too much. Not enough exercise, since movement helps keep things moving. Swallowing things they shouldn't, such as bits of bone, hair, or non-food objects. Matted fur or anal gland trouble around the bottom. Pain or stiffness that makes squatting uncomfortable, which is common in older or arthritic dogs. Stress, or a sudden change in routine. Some medical conditions, which is exactly why a check-up matters if things don't settle. Diet has an influence here, but it's rarely the whole story, so it helps to look at the bigger picture rather than blaming the bowl alone. Is it an emergency, or can I help at home? This is the part that matters most, and it's easier to judge than you might fear. Call your vet now if: Your dog hasn't managed to poo for more than a day or two, or is straining hard with nothing coming. They seem to be in real pain, or are hunched, restless, and unsettled. They're being sick, especially more than once. Their tummy looks bloated, or feels hard and swollen. You spot blood, or you think they've swallowed something that could cause a blockage. You’re just not sure - it’s better to be safe than sorry. Vets Now advise getting a dog checked if they haven't pooed for more than 24 hours (Vets Now, 2024), and PDSA make the sensible point that constipation can range from mild to serious, so when in doubt, a quick call is always the safer choice (PDSA, 2023). It's likely mild, and safe to support at home, if your dog is otherwise bright, eating and drinking normally, comfortable in themselves, and has simply had a brief, minor dip. Even then, if it hasn't improved within a day or so, give your vet a ring. Gentle things you can safely try at home If your dog is otherwise well and this looks mild, here are the safe, simple things to try first: Keep fresh water available at all times, and add a bit of moisture to meals with some wet food, a splash of water, or a little low-salt bone broth. Offer a small amount of plain, cooked pumpkin, a gentle source of fibre and moisture (our guide on whether pumpkin is safe for dogs covers how to serve it). Get them gently moving with a relaxed walk, as light exercise really can help things along. Keep toilet trips calm and unhurried, with plenty of chances to go somewhere they feel at ease. A few things we'd steer you away from doing at home: Don't give human laxatives, which can be genuinely harmful to dogs. Don't dose olive oil or other oils by the spoonful. It's a popular tip, but the amount really matters, and getting it wrong can cause other tummy troubles. Don't attempt an enema yourself, as that's very much a vet-only job. And it's always worth checking with your vet before adding any supplement, especially if your dog has another health condition. A quick word on fibre: more isn't always better It's tempting to assume that if fibre helps, loads of it must help more. It doesn't quite work like that. The right amount of fibre supports firm, regular poos, but piling it on can sometimes tip things the other way, with wind or looser stools. The goal is a complete, balanced diet with the right fibre for your dog, rather than a fibre free-for-all. Prebiotics can help here too. These are a particular kind of fibre that feeds the friendly bacteria in your dog's gut, and our guide to prebiotics for dogs explains how they work. For the wider picture on keeping digestion happy, our dog gut health guide goes a little deeper. Helping prevent constipation Most of the time, prevention comes down to a few steady habits: Keep water topped up and easy to reach, and think about adding moisture through wet food. Feed a complete, good-quality diet with balanced fibre and prebiotics. Try mixed feeding, stirring wet food through dry for extra moisture, something we love to call the ultimate doggie dinner. Our wet recipes are made for exactly this, and our Tummy Lovin' Care fish recipe is designed to be gentle on digestion. Keep up regular exercise, and give plenty of toilet opportunities through the day. Help your dog stay a healthy weight, since carrying extra weight can make things harder. If you do change their food, take it slowly. We always recommend switching over a 2 week period starting with 10% new food, 90% current food, and gradually increasing the new food. When to see your vet If you're ever unsure, lean towards calling, and try not to wait days hoping it clears on its own. It really helps your vet if you can tell them a few things: When your dog last pooed, and what it looked like. Whether they might have eaten anything unusual. Any other signs, such as vomiting, low energy, or going off their food. Constipation can occasionally be the first sign of something more serious, so getting advice early is always the safest route, and usually the quickest way back to a comfortable dog. FAQs How long can a dog safely go without pooing? Most healthy dogs poo between one and three times a day, so a full day without is worth noticing. As a general guide, if your dog hasn't pooed for more than 24 hours it's worth a word with your vet, and longer than that, or with any other signs, is a clear prompt to call (Vets Now, 2024). Puppies and older dogs are best checked a little sooner. Can I give my dog olive oil or coconut oil for constipation? We'd gently point you towards your vet rather than reaching for the oil. It's a very common home tip, but the right amount is easy to get wrong, and too much oil can cause an upset tummy or other problems. A quick chat with your vet is far safer, and they can suggest something suitable if your dog genuinely needs it. Does pumpkin really help a constipated dog? For a mild case, a little plain pumpkin can help, thanks to its gentle fibre and moisture. Use plain cooked or tinned pumpkin, never pie filling, which has added sugar and spices, and keep it to a small amount. It's a nice nudge for the odd sluggish day, but it won't shift a real blockage, so it's no substitute for a vet if things don't improve. Can stress make my dog constipated? It can, yes. A dog's gut and brain are closely linked, so a stressful event or a change in routine can sometimes throw digestion off, constipation included. Keeping things calm and predictable, with a steady toilet routine, usually helps it settle. How can I tell if it's constipation or a blockage? A blockage tends to come with bigger warning signs, and it's an emergency. Alongside not pooing, watch for repeated vomiting, a bloated or painful tummy, weakness, and refusing food. If you notice those, or you think your dog has swallowed something they shouldn't, call your vet straight away rather than trying anything at home. Can puppies get constipated? They can, though an upset tummy is more common in puppies than a blocked-up one. Because puppies usually poo more often than adult dogs, a noticeable drop is worth keeping an eye on. Make sure they're drinking, keep their meals consistent, and check with your vet sooner rather than later, as little ones can go downhill faster than adult dogs.

What to do if your dog is constipated: a calm, vet-backed guide

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